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The Biggest Divorce Myths, Busted

Many people who go through a divorce know people who have been through it before. These individuals often try to offer well-intentioned advice based on their own experiences. Truthfully, though, each divorce case is unique and what happens in one may not necessarily happen in another, regardless of how similar the facts of the cases are. This has led to many myths surrounding divorce and believing those myths can make one more fearful about starting the process. Below, our Columbus divorce lawyer outlines the biggest myths about divorce, and the truth behind them.

Child Custody is Always Awarded to the Mother

Decades ago, it was true that mothers were typically awarded child custody. This was largely due to the fact that at that time, mothers were the ones who primarily stayed home and took care of the children. Today, that is no longer the case. Most Columbus homes require two incomes, meaning both spouses typically work and share in child-rearing duties. The court will take many factors into consideration when making decisions on child custody. All of these prioritize the best interests of the child, and the gender of the parents is not a factor.

Only Women are Eligible for Spousal Support

This was never the case in Ohio. Just as it was mainly women who once stayed home to maintain the household and so, they did not earn an income, wives did historically receive spousal support. Again, things have changed today and many wives make more than their husbands. Gross income is the main factor the courts will consider when deciding on spousal support. If it is found that the divorce will leave the husband at a financial disadvantage, the courts are likely to award the man spousal support.

Children Can Choose the Parent They Want to Live With

Many years ago, Ohio did have an “Age of Election” law that allowed children over the age of 12 to choose which parent they wanted to live with after the divorce. Today, that law is no longer in effect. Judges can consider the child’s preference, but it is certainly not the deciding factor. The older a child is and the closer they are to the age of 18 years old, the more weight their preference will carry.

Divorce is Always Contentious

Although the parties in some divorce cases do become combative, this certainly is not always the case. Many more people today are willing to civilly negotiate with their spouse to reach an agreement, and many courts have implemented mediation and settlement conferences into their procedures to reduce the contentiousness that can often arise in a divorce.

You Need a Divorce Lawyer in Columbus

Even when you can agree to the terms of the divorce with your spouse, the process is still complex and there are many technical requirements to consider.  At Lawrence Law Office, our Columbus divorce lawyers will answer all of your questions and guide you through the process to make it as easy as possible for you. Call us now at 614-228-3664 or contact us online to schedule a consultation.

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